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My advice is, if he’s not making a big deal of it, you should avoid the topic entirely. Raising it repeatedly or reminding him may cause it to turn into a big deal, or create insecurity in him.

The best way to avoid that is to show him he is your sex god, and if he isn’t yet, guide him subtly but enthusiastically until he is.

Great advice that I will do my best to follow. :-)

Ramble says:
November 4, 2011 at 11:54 am
I have never understood why women ask those questions of guys.

It’s called “Shit Testing”. She knows the answer before she asks the question. She is testing his mettle. Which is also why it is not really that analogous to the poor lover not knowing that he stinks in bed. But I said it anyway just to provide some context.

I think I look good. That’s all that really matters to me.


You are going out for drinks (with your steady boyfriend) with some of his friends (and some of their girlfriends) and you only care that you think you look good?
You put on some lingerie to have a really fun Wednesday night and you only care that you think you look good?
I am sure that you can think of many more examples.

Thanks for your votes of confidence. Especially Dogsquat, your story and subsequent summation of guys’ various reactions to experience gaps are fair and make sense. FWIW I didn’t really feel attacked by you at all, I was mostly addressing Jesus and Passer_by (really mostly Jesus, since he responded the most to my comments). He has since described his position in a way I better understand it. So no hard feelings or defensiveness here, at least not any longer. ;-)